Wedding seating guides
Plain answers for the seating jobs that actually blow up a chart: divorced parents, plus-ones, table counts, and a list that will still move.
Where do I start a wedding seating chart?
Start from groups and keep-aparts, not chairs. Count tables from guest count ÷ seats per round. Seat peace before politics. Then hand the list to software if anyone must not share a table, or if RSVPs are still moving.
The job
- What actually breaks a chart — Foam board, and Guest, keep-aparts, 19 eights.
- Twenty seating mistakes — The ones that cost a table or a night.
The chart is still moving
- A last-minute plus-one — One checked example moves one existing guest.
- Unnamed plus-ones — Hold a seat. Do not count them as zero.
- After a fight — A keep-apart, then a reseat.
People who cannot share a table
- Divorced parents — Three cases. Divorce is not assumed to be a conflict.
- Kids at the wedding — With parents, or an agreed split.
- Friend tables — A couple is hard. A friend group is a wish.
How many tables
- Table calculator — Your count. Nearby headcounts stay here.
- 150 guests with a head table — 18 guest tables plus the head table.
- 100 guests — 13 guest tables of 8 after a sweetheart of 2.
- Family larger than a table — Sixteen chairs can still be impossible.
- Round vs long tables — Same people, two confirmed capacities.
- Head table or sweetheart — Your table, a long head, or sit with family.
- Square feet per guest — Eight rooms, four layouts, one number per seat.
- Seats in a tent — A 20 by 40 ft frame tent, measured both ways.
Getting the list in
- How to seat a wedding — Groups and rules, then tables.
- Without placing everyone — Tables, not chairs.
- Import Zola, Knot, or Joy — CSV in. Chart out.
- Excel vs a seating app — When the sheet is enough.
- A spreadsheet that holds — The columns that survive a change.
- Do you need software — Twenty guests, or a moving list.
Paper and palette
- Escort cards vs seating chart — Table, seat, or board: which job each does.
- Choosing wedding colours — Two or three colours, tested on fabric and paper.
- Seventeen wedding palettes — Readable ink on paper and screen, not a mood board.
Past the seating chart
- Planning calculators — Drinks and pets, sized from your guest count.
- Cocktails and the bar — How much to buy, and what to batch.
- Pets at the wedding — A dog of honour, a napkin, a signature drink.
- Which app, honestly — Four kinds of tool, no invented ranking.
- Seating chart ideas — What each layout costs in tables.
Reference
- Chairs per wedding table — every round and banquet size, with the wedding-qualified range.
Start with my guest list — free
About 10 minutes. Software, not a waitlist — your chart tonight.