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Seat Everyone

Head table or sweetheart table

A sweetheart table is two seats for the couple. A long head table puts the wedding party facing the room. You can also sit with family and skip both. Pick from who should be next to you all night — not from a Pinterest default. Do not put divorced parents together at a head table.

Sweetheart table pros and cons?

You get a quiet table and a clear keep-apart from family politics. The risk is looking stranded while everyone else has a crowd. If that bothers you, sit with family or keep the wedding party on a long head.

Should divorced parents sit at the head table?

No. One sightline all night. Sweetheart or wedding-party table for you; each parent at their own table with people they enjoy. Record a keep-apart so a reseat cannot put them together.

If you want your own table

Sweetheart of 2. The rest of the room is rounds or farm tables. Subtract those two seats before you count rounds. 150 guests is still 19 eights · Round vs farm tables

If the wedding party should face the room

A long head of 8–12, party on one side, looking out. Plus-ones of the party sit with friends, not as scenery at the end of the head. Keep couples whole somewhere in the room.

If family politics are the point

Skip the head table. Sit with people you actually want beside you. Equal respect for divorced parents is separate tables, not identical seats at the front. How to seat divorced parents

Start with my guest list — free

About 10 minutes. $49 once per wedding.